Do you agree with this DEFtion of Sodomy and do you think it all wrong to to?

Sodomy can also include penetration by an "object", which can include fingers, dildos, etc. The fact that sodomy is defined in Wikipedia doesn't mean it's illegal. Most states have repealed laws that specify sodomy itself as a crime. And Whether it's "wrong" depends on who with. Anything between two consenting adults is no one else's business, which most states now acknowledge.