If you have red hair doesn't it just make you want to punch something when people do this?

When people who dye there hair red say they have Natural red hair (my mom dose that and i always say she is a wanna be me lololol) and when people say you have no soul (i mean it doesn't bother me when they do it once but if they keep going on and on and on it makes my blood boil) so how do you feel about this.